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Narcissistic Abuse & CPTSD Recovery Healing Life Hacks: 7 Ways to Stop Being a People Pleaser – AKA Narcissist Magnet
When you’ve been abused by a narcissist in a toxic relationship, chances are that you’re a HUGE people pleaser – you can’t STAND confrontation, am I right?
I suspected so…that’s why in today’s morning coffee vlog, I’m sharing 7 ways to stop being a narc magnet and people pleaser.
So let me ask you a few questions. Are you a people-pleaser? Do you try to help everyone at the expense of your own needs? Do you try to make others happy as a means of avoiding confrontation? Do you feel guilt when you put yourself first? If so, you’re a people pleaser.
Trying to make others happy at your own expense is a poor way to spend your time and energy. If you’re looking out for everyone else, who has your best interests at heart? You might think you’re trying to be nice, but that’s not the full story.
People-pleasers feel a need to make others happy, but the motive isn’t entirely altruistic. People-pleasers are attempting to avoid confrontation. They are also feel important by helping others. When they do something nice for another person, they feel good about themselves. Meanwhile, their own lives are unravelling.
They also lose the respect of others. When you don’t respect your time or your needs, no one else will either. You’re training people to treat you badly.
Use these 7 narcissistic abuse recovery life hacks to take back your life and become the person you truly want and deserve to be – and make yourSELF happy in the process!
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